Uncomfortable changes !
- June 01, 2019
- Maureen Hayden
Sometimes we have to make decisions that benefit ourselves and not others. Of late I have been assessing different things in my life and decided to stop or at least put a hold on a few things that have either been draining me or taking up way too much space in my head !
If you are like me, life can have you saying yes to everything and no too nothing. But when your stress levels and your mind starts to feel unbalanced its time to rethink and realine ones self. And that is exactly my train of thought at present.
I know for sure that there are some people who will not understand or even agree with some decision’s I have made, but I am at a place right now that I MATTER!
And the meaning behind that is to say I matter, my life matters, my choice, my mind, my life.
I have the choice to allow things and disallow things if I want too and that is exactly what I have had to do recently and be more conscious of those points.
I have had to learn to be more direct, not give in to my own insecurity’s and go forward with decisions. I find at times my anxiety causes self doubt and fear so leads me to feel like I cant……
But come on, I know anxiety good enough by now to know it is a viscous circle..so I continue on !
A dear friend of late said to me that we have to re-calibrate ourselves at times, and I guess that is exactly what I have been doing.
I am moving forward with a new mindset, new focus and lets just say, watch this space……
I believe sometimes the hardest trials we go through in life push us to make the best decision.
Don’t let fear and doubt stop you from living your best life today.
So on that note, what changes do you need to make ?
What do you need to do for yourself that maybe others wont like but it will benefit and enhance your life ?
Tomorrow is not guaranteed, live your best today, make a change and have no regrets !